To help reinforce what you have learnt at The Health Retreat, here’s some fresh ways to work with asking better questions to discover your inaccurate thinking and beliefs..and to use your preferred Upgrade technique to make personal change.
Questions for Self-Wholeness
Instead of asking yourself “Why do these things always happen to me?”
Learn to ask: What is it inside of me that attracts these painful situations?
Instead of asking yourself why things had to go this way or that way…
Learn to ask: Why is the way I feel determined by external conditions?
Instead of asking yourself how to protect yourself in challenging situations?
Learn to ask: What is is in me that always needs to be defended?
Instead of asking yourself how to clear up your mental fog…
Learn to ask: Can confusion know anything about clarity?
Instead of asking yourself what to do about tomorrow (or the next minute)
Learn to ask: Can there ever be intelligence in anxiety or worry?
Instead of asking yourself why does so-and-so act this way or that way….
Learn to ask: What’s inside of me that wants to hurt itself over how anyone acts?
Instead of asking “Why me?”
Learn to ask: Who is this “me” that feels this way?
Instead of asking yourself if you’ve made the right choice…
Learn to ask: Can fear ever make a safe decision?
Instead of asking yourself why doesn’t so-and-so see how wrong they are…
Learn to ask: Is what I’m feeling about that person right now good for me? Or them?
Instead of asking yourself how to get others to approve you…
Learn to ask: What do I really want, the applause of the others or to go quietly have my own life?
(These questions come from ‘The Secret of Letting Go’ by Guy Finley)
Remember: Being, doing and having things “perfect” is the Inaccurate Mindset way. It focuses on the False Idea of Destination = Happiness.
Your purpose is to be living Here, NOW with what is, realistically.
Growing, learning and experiencing, sharing your Life Journey.
Never accept the Inaccurate view which may suggest that Reality is boring, unattractive, sad, less. You ARE reality. You are the creative co-creator with Life.
Life loves us that much it gives us opportunities to learn and grow in Wisdom, until we learn and grow.
Book Recommendations:
The Secret of Letting Go by Guy Finley (an Oldie, but a Good one)
Reviews – read more or buy book, click here
“Guy Finley is one of the most respected people in self-development because he guides the seeker’s soul with common sense, humor, and ultimate spirituality.”
Love Jayana